Your sex life after having a baby will be different—but different doesn't mean worse. A sex therapist explains what's really going on and how to rebuild intimacy on your own timeline.
You've probably heard that men peak sexually at 18 and women at 30-something. Here's why that entire framework is nonsense—and why your most satisfying sex might still be ahead of you.
Wondering what actually happens in sex therapy — and whether it's worth the investment? Here's an honest look at the process, the real costs, and how to decide what's right for your relationship.
If you grew up in purity culture, you learned that sex was simultaneously sacred and dangerous. Now that you're married or in a committed relationship, those messages don't just disappear. Learn how religious sexual shame affects adult intimacy and how to begin healing.
When one partner wants sex more than the other, it creates a painful cycle of rejection and pressure. Learn why desire discrepancy is normal, what causes it, and how to navigate it without resentment.
When sex stops in a relationship, it's rarely about one thing. Learn the real reasons intimacy fades—and the compassionate, practical steps that actually help couples reconnect.
Performance anxiety can turn intimacy into a test you're terrified of failing. Learn why it happens, how it affects your sex life, and therapist-backed strategies to reclaim pleasure without pressure.
Initiating sex shouldn't feel like a risk assessment. Being turned down shouldn't feel like rejection. Learn how to navigate sexual initiation with confidence and respond to "no" without hurt feelings.
Sexual shame doesn't just make sex uncomfortable—it makes connection nearly impossible. Learn where shame comes from, how it shows up in your intimate life, and how to begin healing it together.
Having kids changes everything about your sex life—and that's completely normal. Learn why intimacy shifts after children arrive and how to rebuild connection without pressure or guilt.
When orgasm becomes the finish line, sex turns into a performance instead of an experience. Learn why letting go of orgasm as the goal can actually lead to more pleasure, deeper connection, and yes—better orgasms.
When stress is high, desire often disappears. You're not broken—your body is doing exactly what it's designed to do. Learn why stress kills libido and how to reconnect with your partner even when life feels overwhelming.
Most couples struggle to talk openly about sex, but it's not because they don't care. Understanding why these conversations feel so hard is the first step toward making them easier.
